I recall observing my parents as a child and experiencing various feelings about marriage and relationships. Little did I know at the time, it would ultimately lead me to my profession of helping others improve their marriages and relationships.

My relationship is a continuous journey of growth and a work in progress. I’ve come to understand that there will always be some tension and misunderstandings along the way. However, it’s how we handle those challenges that determines the depth of love we feel between us.

I’ve experienced significant personal growth within my relationship with my husband. I used to be quite self-centered, but I’ve learned to stretch myself and cultivate a perspective that considers his viewpoint alongside my own. I truly believe that relationships have the power to transform us into better, more compassionate individuals.

In counseling sessions, I frequently share my own growth stories in relationships as examples for you. I do this not to highlight how wonderful I am, but rather to discuss my own struggles with small parts, my inner critic, and internal defenses. My aim is to demonstrate that there is a way out of these challenges, which can help you and your partner evolve into more caring adults.

As a child, I experienced emotions deeply, not only my own but also those of people around me. Some refer to this as being an empath, which means I can sense emotions that are unspoken. Sometimes, I’m not sure exactly what the feelings are at first—it’s more of a gut-level sensation for me. This is beneficial for you because sometimes the emotional energy between you and your partner is the first thing that guides me in helping you.